Gone are the days when you used to approach with girl with bravado and asked her whether she would be your girlfriend. As you are already mature you need to know how to get a girlfriend the mature way. And I guess that is why you are here. You are tired of being lonely; you want someone with whom you can share experiences with, that someone who you can laugh with, cry with and someone you can spend the entire night holding them in your hands.
Most guys believe that getting a girlfriend when they are older is hard work. It is not. It is even simpler since you already had one when you are small, even if you are now shy around them. You do not have to memorize anything for you to get a girlfriend for that matter.
We should probably begin by acknowledging the fact that everyone wants to be with someone. No one likes the idea of spending time unless you are engaged in things that are considered anti-social. You will be surprised to know that even that damsel that you so want as your girlfriend is looking for someone to call her own. With whom she can be doing things that couples do.
If you happen to have gone to school, then you are familiar with the phrase that like poles repel and the unlike poles attract. This is what is referred to the law of attraction and is the one responsible for bringing things together and separating them as well. So, if you want to ever get a girlfriend then you have to be attractive. You have to find ways through which she will notice you and be drawn to you.
The easiest way for you to achieve this is by looking good, both in your dressing and your grooming. Your sense of style has to scream HELLO! TAKE A LOOK AT ME! You can only achieve this by investing in clothes, if you have old faded clothes or those that have been passed by fashion those are not good to have around. Throw then in the bin and get a new wardrobe.
Once you are set up in the good looking department, by knowing how to match your clothes right, then you are set to getting a girlfriend. For you to get a girlfriend, you have to be around where the girl of your dream is. In short, you have to be in her radius. You cannot attract her when you have condemned and lock yourself in the house due your shyness. If you are shy, get one of your outgoing friends to take you out to where she is.
And whenever you do get the chance to say hi to her, establish a conversation that will sure show that you are interested in her. When she realizes that you are interested in her, she will take notice of you and will be more open to share more about herself with you.

