Ultimately there are no rules about choosing a band. It is up to either the man or the couple together to make a decision. Will he or won’t he. There are a variety of considerations. First, will he wear one? Once that decision is made in the affirmative then there is a whole world of choice about styles, widths, materials and the type of statement the ring makes, both for the man and the woman.
It was, in fact, during the second world war that the use of wedding rings by men became more common. (Note that for the purpose of this conversation, the terms “ring” and “band” are interchangeable, both meaning the same thing.)
It became the custom for US soldiers going to war to publicise their marital status by wearing their own wedding rings. They were happy to make public their commitment to their wife by the wearing of a public symbol that declared that commitment to all. Given that this habit of wearing men’s wedding bands was reasonably new it was all the more creditable that these men were willing to forego the marital obscurity available to them from not wearing a ring and actively chose to make a public statement about their choice.
When considering the styles of men’s wedding rings it is well worth thinking about the personality of the individual. While different men have very different personalities different rings will suit different personalities as well. A loud outgoing man, for example, can wear a more unique men’s ring.
There are many different ring materials which also reflect the personality of the individual. Titanium or Platinum are both becoming much more popular. Whilst diamonds are not, of course, as popular with men as with women, they do make a clear statement which pleases some men who choose them. Diamond rings for any gender clearly say “I can afford it” or at least the big ones do. But it can be a brave man who chooses to wear a large diamond design or something even more elaborate.